April 9th, 2006» Apology Matters

- 7:21 pm

I’ve just read Jermain’s last blog entry on his apology. Nevertheless, I think that post is really not necessary, since it is neither dedicated directly to the seniors he had insulted, intentionally or not.

My thought is that if he is sincerely apologetic, he should apologise to the seniors, especially to Andy, personally instead of creating a blog entry that addresses anonymous commenters and seniors in general. Personally as in physically or, if he finds it hard like me, atleast directly via phone or instant messenger. I believe it is, by far, the most sincere form of apology. Note that by that, I don’t doubt his sincerity.

It is common to make mistakes. What determines one’s moral values is whether one has the courage to make up for his mistakes.

It also doesn’t matter anymore if one is truly at fault, or even if anyone is actually at fault, if one is sincere about changing the situation for the better.

Just last year, I had a disagreement with my sectional leader, Melissa. Much resentments were made initially. Nevertheless, I took the first step and apologise to her personally. She, of course, graciously accepted my apology and even apologised to me too. Yes, it’s hard to swallow down my pride and humble myself to apologise but it’s well worth it.

I have done it too. What about you?

Comments

1. I agree, the feeling is actually liberating after apologizing to someone. It’s only the first part of admitting one’s fault that makes one’s toes curl in discomfort. I’ve only just recently started stuffing my pride in my pocket, apologizing first. Out of impatience, perhaps, but also out of guilt.

   I’m glad you think that way.

   By michan on April 10th, 2006 at 2:28 am
   
   

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